I just came across this blog about a daycare center in Ohio called CityKids. Now, this just p*sses me off in a big way. Am I crazy or does charging an extra $50/wk for "handling" the oh-so-hazardous and complicated breastmilk seem like a scam. Seriously, you keep it in the fridge or freezer. You stick it hot water. You feed it to the baby. Unlike formula which you must measure out the formula, mix it with water, heat it up (unless it's premixed then you have to refrigerate it and then heat it up), and NOW you can feed the baby. And, according to the above link, day cares have to then sterilise everything that the formula came into contact with: bottles, nipples, etc. Just a few extra steps. Plus the American Academy of Pediatricians is now recommending reverse osmosis filtered water ONLY for formula. Whatever, my point is it is not that complicated or demanding to store and heat a bottle of breastmilk.
So many women struggle to establish their nursing relationships in the first place. Then they have to go back to work and fight to keep their supply up while pumping in storage closets or bathrooms while their child is in daycare. All of this to just do what is normal and right for their children. And then some paranoid ass comes along and decides crap like this. Honestly I don't even have words for how stupid this is and how angry it makes me. What is WRONG with our cultural that feeding our children the way God designed it and intended it is so freaking hard! I get so sick of this underlying attitude that somehow feeding our children with the milk that is made FOR them and only them is creepy.
I could go on and on and on about this but at the risk of a burst blood vessel, I will stop here. Please, dear reader, even if you don't read the link at least take the time to consider what your own attitudes are towards breastfeeding.
Saturday, February 24, 2007
Wednesday, February 14, 2007
Magical play and wild days
It's been rather snowy and cold here this week so we've been a little stir crazy. My sister in law sent me this site and it's full of fun ideas. It's helpful just to be reminded that childhood itself is magic. Sometimes I get frustrated being cooped up doing the same old things over and over and over (Mr Brown Can Moo, Can You?)! There are some simple silly ideas here, reminding me why unschooling and free play are so important to me.
Tuesday, February 13, 2007
My All Natural Body: round and loving it (or trying to!)
About 9 months or so ago I made the switch away from using traditional body care products. Part of the motivation for this was anti-consumerist/anti-beauty industry; partly it was health concerns/eco-consciousness; partly it was frugality. Much of my artwork has been critical of consumerism and advertising and the beauty industry. These things make me sick in a lot of ways, but especially when I look at the far-reaching effects they have on our culture and society. And especially when I am walking through the little girls section of Target or wandering around campus. I am always striving to fight against the seduction of advertisements and the lustful desires they seek to create within me. Sometimes I am successful. More often, I have to fight to keep my brain active and conscious and to stifle the unnecessary want. (On a side note, I've been working very hard at distinguishing between want & need... a much more difficult exercise than one might think!). And honestly, as a public we seem to be determined to keep our heads in the sand, ready to accept what someone has told us that we want (not need, need is rarely brought up in advertising because it reminds of poverty). We appear satisfied to pay the highest price for the lowest quality in order to maintain whatever image is most popular. We are happy to do it. In choosing to wash my hair using baking soda and apple cider vinegar and to wash my face with honey (raw, local honey!) I am refusing to accept what some unknown corporate entity has determined I desire. I am agreeing to (try) and accept who God made me and the beauty with which He endowed me. I am refusing to line the pockets of anyone who perpetuates an unreal standard of beauty.
I am also trying to honor the body given me by treating it as kindly as I can. A lot of the ingredients that are poured into the products we use are very unhealthy even toxic. Parabens and sodium lauryl/laureth sulfates are among the most common of the nasty ingredients (to learn more about ingredients that may be in your specific products, go here). The goal of using these ingredients is to fill the products with inexpensive ingredients (often while marketing using the more expensive ingredients: lavender, oatmeal, shea butter, etc) thus keeping the cost of the product low. Honestly, though, even if many of these ingredients weren't questionable I would still be doing what I am. Even the purest of the mainstream products tends to be rather harsh and overkill for what our bodies need. And, let's face it, I enjoy being nonconformist!
So, what is it I do exactly? How does one wash with baking soda? It's actually pretty easy! The goal is allow your body's chemistry balance out with the belief that, if you are in good health, it will be what it needs to be.
Shampooing the No-Poo Way
disclaimer: this is very much a personalized thing. below is a good starting point, but it takes a bit of time and patience and experimentation to find exactly what will work for you! There is also a normal de-tox period where your scalp will continue to over-produce oils like it does for commercial shampoos/conditioners.
1)First, comb/brush your hair well. This loosens up the dirt and grease in your hair.
2)Then I take 2 Tbs of baking soda and dissolve it in about 16 oz of warm water. (The basic ratio is 1 Tbs/8 oz water-if you need more for long hair or really dirty hair, maintain the proportions and double the recipe or wash twice. Too much baking soda will cause your hair to dry out and matte together).
3)In the shower, I part my hair into 4 (2 down and 2 across). I pour about half of this mixture onto the part lines and work it in. No-poo is like a good scalp massage. You cannot do this without it and just rubbing your fingers into your hair will not suffice. I start at the crown and massage out and down a couple of times. The idea is to massage into my scalp the baking soda. Then I pour the rest of the solution from my hair-line down to the rest of my hair (looking up). I work this is in the same way.
4)I let the baking soda sit while I wash my face. This is pretty simple too: just take a glob of honey and massage it in. Let it work a moment, then rinse.
5)Rinse, rinse rinse! And I rub my fingers through my scalp again to be sure I've rinsed well.
6)Condition: I mix roughly 1 Tbs of apple cider vinegar with 16 oz of water. I pour most of this on from the ears down, reserving about 1/4 to pour from the hair line down. The vinegar restores the pH of your hair and makes it nice and shiny! Then I rinse well.
Review:
scrub, scrub with baking soda solution, rinse, rinse with apple cider vinegar, rinse! Presto, beautiful hair!
This is so simple and so frugal! I spent $4 on my 5lb bag of baking soda at costco and roughly $5 on my 16 0z jar of vinegar (I use Bragg's Organic Raw Unfiltered). These last me for months and months and months and months and so on!
I am also trying to honor the body given me by treating it as kindly as I can. A lot of the ingredients that are poured into the products we use are very unhealthy even toxic. Parabens and sodium lauryl/laureth sulfates are among the most common of the nasty ingredients (to learn more about ingredients that may be in your specific products, go here). The goal of using these ingredients is to fill the products with inexpensive ingredients (often while marketing using the more expensive ingredients: lavender, oatmeal, shea butter, etc) thus keeping the cost of the product low. Honestly, though, even if many of these ingredients weren't questionable I would still be doing what I am. Even the purest of the mainstream products tends to be rather harsh and overkill for what our bodies need. And, let's face it, I enjoy being nonconformist!
So, what is it I do exactly? How does one wash with baking soda? It's actually pretty easy! The goal is allow your body's chemistry balance out with the belief that, if you are in good health, it will be what it needs to be.
Shampooing the No-Poo Way
disclaimer: this is very much a personalized thing. below is a good starting point, but it takes a bit of time and patience and experimentation to find exactly what will work for you! There is also a normal de-tox period where your scalp will continue to over-produce oils like it does for commercial shampoos/conditioners.
1)First, comb/brush your hair well. This loosens up the dirt and grease in your hair.
2)Then I take 2 Tbs of baking soda and dissolve it in about 16 oz of warm water. (The basic ratio is 1 Tbs/8 oz water-if you need more for long hair or really dirty hair, maintain the proportions and double the recipe or wash twice. Too much baking soda will cause your hair to dry out and matte together).
3)In the shower, I part my hair into 4 (2 down and 2 across). I pour about half of this mixture onto the part lines and work it in. No-poo is like a good scalp massage. You cannot do this without it and just rubbing your fingers into your hair will not suffice. I start at the crown and massage out and down a couple of times. The idea is to massage into my scalp the baking soda. Then I pour the rest of the solution from my hair-line down to the rest of my hair (looking up). I work this is in the same way.
4)I let the baking soda sit while I wash my face. This is pretty simple too: just take a glob of honey and massage it in. Let it work a moment, then rinse.
5)Rinse, rinse rinse! And I rub my fingers through my scalp again to be sure I've rinsed well.
6)Condition: I mix roughly 1 Tbs of apple cider vinegar with 16 oz of water. I pour most of this on from the ears down, reserving about 1/4 to pour from the hair line down. The vinegar restores the pH of your hair and makes it nice and shiny! Then I rinse well.
Review:
scrub, scrub with baking soda solution, rinse, rinse with apple cider vinegar, rinse! Presto, beautiful hair!
This is so simple and so frugal! I spent $4 on my 5lb bag of baking soda at costco and roughly $5 on my 16 0z jar of vinegar (I use Bragg's Organic Raw Unfiltered). These last me for months and months and months and months and so on!
Sunday, February 11, 2007
mama's night out
This should be mandatory for the sanity of all mothers old & young. On Friday night I was able to go out and have a couple beers and some good food with some other moms from my church. It was so much fun to just chill out and enjoy conversation. I've really struggled with a sense of isolation from the other moms at church, especially as my parenting style differs pretty much from theirs. But there's also that obnoxious element of female wariness and competition that also seems to come into play no matter where one is. It was a real joy to have a way to get to know each other a little better. I think we're going to make it a monthly thing! At any rate we already have the next one planned out.
cheers to a good beer with some new friends!
cheers to a good beer with some new friends!
Thursday, February 8, 2007
Floating
So, I don't really have anything profound to say right now (or ever really)0 but I kind of wanted to post just to prove that I'm still alive. Anyhoo....
Last night I was able to go and see one of my favorite artists Paul Pfeiffer speak and show some work. He even showed us a new video that I understood hasn't shown yet. It was so rejuvinating to see his work, to think about artwork and to kind of jumpstart my stalling out brain. I had only seen a couple of the videos before, mostly I knew about them through still pictures. I was thrilled to see them "in motion". It was also kind of fun, kind of strange to be back on campus and to see my old proffesors. In one sense the whole evening was exhilerating and in another it was horribly depressing. It can be such a struggle not to succomb to the "why can't I's?" and the comparisons. So, before I write myself into the blues, I'll sign off :)
Last night I was able to go and see one of my favorite artists Paul Pfeiffer speak and show some work. He even showed us a new video that I understood hasn't shown yet. It was so rejuvinating to see his work, to think about artwork and to kind of jumpstart my stalling out brain. I had only seen a couple of the videos before, mostly I knew about them through still pictures. I was thrilled to see them "in motion". It was also kind of fun, kind of strange to be back on campus and to see my old proffesors. In one sense the whole evening was exhilerating and in another it was horribly depressing. It can be such a struggle not to succomb to the "why can't I's?" and the comparisons. So, before I write myself into the blues, I'll sign off :)
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